Since you’re only here for a few reasons, you just might be...
- a success-driven woman ready to embrace change but feeling trapped by life
- at odds with who you are and what to do differently to get the outcome you want
- stuck in an unfulfilling relationship with an emotionally oblivious partner
- healing from years of unresolved problems and in need of solutions starting yesterday
And this is exactly where I can help.
Hi there! I’m Amber, and I specialize in helping women come home to themselves after years of poor-quality relationships and codependence. Together, we can take you from settling for less, whether that’s through yourself and relationships, to a thriving mindset where you can overcome the odds – regardless of how people decide to treat you.
So if you find yourself stuck and unable to figure out where to go next, good news! You’re exactly where you need to be. I founded The Quiet Bee because I know firsthand what you’ve been going through.
After being in several toxic relationships where I lost my identity, self-esteem, and became overwhelmed by imposter syndrome...
I finally said enough is enough.
On a personal note...
I moved across the country to be with a man who would inevitably turn toxic.
After 6 months of paradise and thinking I had met my soulmate, things changed for the worst.
Every nice gesture. Every loving moment. Gone.
He wouldn’t even hold my hand in the grocery store because he said I slowed him down.
I spent three long years hoping he would go back to the man he was.
That never happened. I burned myself to the ground while waiting for the man I lost.
This left me isolated, uncertain, and alone.
I thought it was my fault his love was gone.
"I must be missing something," I thought. "I must be unloveable."
After three years of living with this man and being told I wasn’t good enough for anything but him, I wasn’t confident I deserved better, but I had a hunch. I mustered up the courage to leave the relationship for good, and embarked on a journey to be good enough for myself.
After that, I started taking up new hobbies that were completely new to me, such as learning Korean and traveling the pacific northwest… in an RV!
I watched the sun rise over the Grand Tetons. I kayaked on the most blue water I've ever seen at the Cascades. I saw the world I'd spent years never noticing because I was too hurt to look.
I visited my best friends from home for the first time in years. I started laughing again. I did little things and experienced tiny joys that led me back to my own body. Little by little each day.
Slowly, I started to believe things about myself that were always there. I’m worthy of love and I’m worthy of myself and that’s something no one can take away from me again.
Without the decision to leave that all-too-familiar relationship, I never would have had these beautiful experiences. I wouldn’t be writing for The Quiet Bee. I wouldn’t have traveled the pacific northwest or witnessed some of the most beautiful parts of the world. And, most of all, I wouldn’t have taken the opportunity to have a better life when it presented itself.
I want the same for you.
You don’t have to travel like I did or learn one of the most challenging languages in the world. But you can do little things each day that bring you back to yourself.
We aren't meant to disassemble ourselves and reassemble based on what someone else wants.
On The Quiet Bee, you'll find some blogs I've written to help you on your journey... and you can even join my e-mail list where I'll drop some support into your inbox a few times a week. I'll read every email you send my way.